I was standing in line at a major retailer, that I won't mention the name, and it suddenly hit me like a ton of bricks why I am like I am. I'm not saying that's a bad thing, cause I definitely have my moments, but the very reason I turned out the way that I turned out is because I didn't have an x-box or a play station when I was growing up. Forget the fact that the bathroom was in a little house in the backyard, that made for an interesting trip in the middle of the night when the snow was on the ground, or that I had to walk to school, because the school bus didn't do door to door pick-ups, or that I knew that if I got out of line somebody would bust my bottom and they didn’t have to worry about child abuse, or that one of our main form of recreation was working on the farm to help out because everybody chipped in.

My shortcomings revolve around the fact that I didn't have a game that could consume all of my time, and teach me the fundamentals of life that I would need to know. Things like how to get a little guy to jump over a bunch of other little things all while trying not to get blown up by a fire breathing cactus. You know the important stuff every kid ought to know. I will admit that I am a slight bit technologically challenged, meaning I’m still not sure sometimes which button to push to turn on the computer, and when I need to program a remote, or anything technical like that I get the 6 year old to take care of it, but I still look back on the things we had and did as a child and I wouldn’t change them for anything.

I was 18 years old before I knew that there were more than 2 channels on the TV, and that the picture actually had more than 2 colors (Black and White), or that you could get a TV with more than a 16” screen. I also look back and remember that Christmas and Easter weren’t about toys and presents but about spending time with the people you love, and giving thanks to the Lord, because of what he gave to us. The funny thing about holidays today is that we put so much emphasis on material things, that we sometimes realize we just bought something for the kids that they already had, but they never opened it or played with it cause they got so much stuff they couldn’t find it. I never had that problem as a child, because, we usually had one toy we shared, when we had time for toys.

My favorite Christmas gift of all times, one that I still have , is a used guitar that my Dad bought at the stockyards for four dollars. It was the one I learned to play on. It hangs on the wall in my house as a reminder of the best times in the world. A time when at meal time we sat down together, gave thanks for what we had, regardless of what it was, and enjoyed it as a family.

Life seemed a whole lot simpler then, not that it really was, but it was our life, The one my parents gave me, and I’m so thankful to them and for them and it kind of shows in one of the songs I wrote called Big Shoes. I’ll never be the parent they were, and I’ll never fill the shoes they left for me to fill, but I think I’m doing something right, cause even the baby knows how to kill the fire breathing cactus on the video games… How’s that for parental guidance….

Terry Wooley
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